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Note: This is an on going part of a look at six issues that we face in keeping our children and students safe online. We’ll be looking at the issue, discussing some solutions and recommending some free and commercial software that can help protect the children you work with online.

As a parent, one of your many responsibilities is to monitor your child’s media habits. The end goal should be a fully mature adult who can discern right from wrong with or without guidance. It’s very important to lay down some ground rules, as technology has a great amount of potential to effect our lives positively or negatively. Here’s a few areas to be concerned with, and how to help monitor or filter those areas.

The issue: Pornography

Steps need to be taken to protect children from both accidentally discovering pornography during innocent surfing, as well as those children who might be actively searching for it. It’s quite easy to accidentally access a porn site during a search for a report or for an image during a google image search.

Solutions for parent concerns:

General Tips:
- Place the computer in a family area. Children shouldn’t have access to a computer in a private place.
- Be sure to keep your password confidential and to turn off your own automatic logins. Children can run up quite a bill accidentally (or purposefully) after going to a site that you have left yourself logged into.

- Pornography
- If you suspect your child is purposely searching for pornography, talk to them about the issue. It can be a difficult discussion, but it can save your child from a lifelong addiction.
- Set up a filter that can protect your family from stumbling across undesired content.
- Just know that no filter is perfect. Always, always, know what your kids are doing while surfing the web, because a filter never takes the place of a curious and caring parent.


One Response to “Keeping Kids Safe Online - Issue #1 - Pornography”  

  1. 1 Luke Gilkerson

    These are some very good tips. Keeping passwords confidential and keeping the computer in a family area are simply ideas that any parent can do.

    I work a company called Covenant Eyes. We have made high quality Internet accountability (monitoring) and filtering tools. We get reports from parents all the time about ways to keep their children safe from Internet pornography.

    It is true that no filter is perfect, but there are some filters better than others. I also recommend an accountability resource, like ours. It isn’t like a filter; it simply monitors where a user goes on the Internet. We create detailed Internet-usage reports of every single URL visited. These reports cannot be edited or erased (like a computer’s Internet history) because all the information is housed by our servers. We also have an up-to-date scoring system that rates sites based on content and includes those numbers on the report. We have many families who use our service that are able to tell where exactly their children are going and when.

    Thanks for the helpful information you have posted here!

    Luke Gilkerson
    Internet Community Manager
    Covenant Eyes
    http://www.covenanteyes.com

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